When you take a look in the mirror what do you see?

Do you see the most beautiful human soul full of light and love?

Or do you see

  • the blemishes on you skin,
  • the nose that is too big or too small,
  • the hair that is not quite right,
  • the eyes that look tired and
  • the wrinkles beginning to appear?

I find it ironic that in our 20’s and 30’s we spend so much of our time worrying about how we look. We spend copious amounts of time on grooming. Pasting our faces full of makeup and dying our hair, all to look more “beautiful”.

We are seeking to be “seen” by others. We want to be validated by the world. All the while we are judging and criticizing ourselves according to some standard set by the world around us that we have decided is important. Hours can be consumed in choosing what clothes to wear and what accessories to put with those clothes all in an effort to fit in. We focus externally, and want others to tell us that we are good enough, pretty enough, smart enough. 

My 45th birthday is less than 2 days away, and when I look in the mirror now, I am stuck by my natural beauty. No makeup, no frills, just me – raw and naked staring back at myself in the mirror.

Why has it taken me this long to see myself in this way?

From my teens and all the way until I turned 40, my skin was plagued with blemishes. Every time I looked in the mirror this is all I could see.  It was as if all my imperfections were on display to the world. I felt not good enough and my skin reflected that out to the world.  I tried so many lotions, potions, pills and foods all in an efforts to rid myself of these blemishes – but in truth none of it worked.

It was only when I turned within – to my soul, that the letting go of what was not me to begin with – that all the blemishes began to fade away.  I was not all the stories that others and myself had told myself. I did not need to be blonde to be beautiful. I did not need make up to be beautiful.

My true beauty was never to be found on the outside.

It is only within that this could be truly seen and felt. This is a lesson that I am still learning, implementing and integrating into my daily life. It is challenging to let go of all the stories that we are surrounded with and to focus purely on our life force energy. 

The truth of each one of us is pure light and love – do you feel it?

For most of my life I did not. The opposite end of the the spectrum to pure light and love is the depths of despair, sadness and even depression. I have been there and I know what self loathing feels like. It is not a good place to hang out. Life feels heavy and living feels painful. The only way out of this place is to let go of the stories and to return to the truth of who you are. 

The road back to the truth of who you are can be challenging and it definitely is not easy but it is soooooo worth it!

Being able to look into the mirror and be struck by your natural beauty – this is precious. It fills you up to overflowing with love, light and joy. You are able to go out into the world and be a true expression of your light, of your purpose in the world.

Just by being you, you automatically impact the world in the ways you could never imagine.

How do you live your own truth?

  • There is no mold, and there is no formula.
  • No one else can tell you how to be you.
  • Only you know your own truth.
  • Only you can live your own truth.

When you anchor into your life force energy, you know the truth, you feel the truth, you live the truth. There is no doubt or confusion, there is just a deep inner knowing of the way.

There are key people along the way that have been there in my life to reflect back to me the stories that I have bought into, the stories that have kept me trapped away from my true self. These people have been instrumental in helping me to see what I have been blinded from seeing.  They have helped me to anchor into my truth. They were never there to give me my truth or tell me what my truth is – just to help me see what I was struggling to see on my own. 

  • I invite you to journey back to yourself.
  • I invite you to be re-united with your core essence.
  • I invite you to embrace all of who you are.
  • I invite you to open up to the truth of who you are and live the life you were designed to live.

You don’t need to believe me, but I can tell you that – YOU are worth it!

You need to feel this, and know this for YOURSELF!

Human Design is an amazing awareness tool that can help you to see what is not you (your patterns), to let go of all that is holding you back and creating pain and suffering in your life. 

Start living as your true self today!


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As a guide I can help you on this journey. I can guide you to know and trust yourself.

If you are new to Human Design, then book an Initial Human Design Session and begin your journey to truly knowing and living as yourself.
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