Do you find yourself in a life situation that is dissatisfying? It doesn’t quite meet what you thought your life should be.  Perhaps you are unhappy because it hasn’t turned out the way you expected.

You look at the world around you and it appears that so many people have the things that you want in your life, and so you put all your energy into trying to make things happen, to bring these things into your life.

You spend all your time, money and energy working towards what you think your life should look like.

Yet you still find yourself feeling as if something is missing.

You may even think… maybe I need to:

  • work harder
  • do more
  • study more
  • win the lotto
  • take more risks
  • stop taking risks
  • move to a bigger city
  • make myself more available
  • get a make over
  • invest in a business coach
  • find a match maker
  • hide away in a cave somewhere

The list goes on and on. The thing is though, that no matter what you do, life may still throw you lemons.

Before we get into how to make lemonade out of the lemons in your life, I would like to introduce you to two concepts:


The life

  • This is the life you are DESTINED to live. 
  • This is the life you are DESIGNED to live. 
  • This is the life you DESERVE to live. 

It is the life that your absolutely unique life force energy came here to live.  It encapsulates all your unique gifts and talents. It is the life in which you know you are an amazingly powerful being. You feel it. You know it. You live it.  It encompasses bringing forth and standing in your power. You get to live as YOU. As you live as YOU, you transform the world around you. It is the life that you are here to enjoy. The life you are here to witness unfolding around you.  It is the life that is free flowing, and where suffering is no longer a part of your existence. 

When you are connected to the life, you feel love all around you.  The love emanates from within you. You recognise that you are perfect and that life is perfect.  

You are not broken, there is nothing wrong with you. There is nothing to fix. You are a perfect example of what your life force energy is here to bring to this world.

The life has a set trajectory, one that you are travelling on right now.  You have no control over the direction that the life is heading on.  You are not “doing” anything to make it happen. It is THE LIFE you are here to live.  The life is happening to you.  It is all unfolding perfectly as it is designed to do.

The Life Situation

The life situation is a layer that sits on top of the life. In many ways it prevents us from truly seeing the life. Most of us think that the life situation is the life, when in fact it is not.

The life situation is what we accumulate from the world around us, from the environment, from the conditioning field that we go through.  

When something “happens” to us in life, our minds make a judgement about whether that is a “negative” or “positive” experience. It makes a judgment about where it thinks we should be in relation to where we are.  It is a story created by the mind and usually this story tells us that we are not where it thinks we should be.  The result of this, is suffering.  We suffer because we are constantly thinking that what we have or where we are is not where we should be.

When life throws you lemons – make lemonade

How then do we remove the layer known as the life situation, and drop into the life?

Essentially the life and the life situation follow the same trajectory.  Yet one brings suffering and the other allows you to tap into your unique power and potential.

The life situation is the perception of the mind, telling you that life is throwing you lemons. Letting go of this perception, allows you to see that these particular lemons are perfect for you, and exactly what you need.

Without the awareness of the conditioning that you have accumulated through your life time, or how your mind is controlling you, you will forever be stuck in the life situation, with no way to access the amazing energy of your life force energy within the life.

When we are talking about awareness, no matter the path you take to get there, witness or passenger consciousness is what awareness leads you to.  Human Design has been the most effect tool for me to begin seeing how the mind works.  It has given me a road map, to let go of all that is holding me trapped inside the life situation filled with suffering, and moving into the life that I was designed to live.

As you transition from the life situation into the life, you come to a place of knowing that life is happening, that you have no control, that you are not doing any of this. You become the witness, you begin to watch. Instead of fighting and creating suffering in your life, you begin to enjoy the ride.

Human Design is an amazing awareness tool that can help you to see what is not you (your patterns), to let go of all that is holding you back and creating pain and suffering in your life. 

Start living as your true self today!


Want to come and play?

As a guide I can help you on this journey. I can guide you to know and trust yourself.

If you are new to Human Design, then book an Initial Human Design Session and begin your journey to truly knowing and living as yourself.
If you have already had an Initial Human Design Session and are wanting to be guided deeper into your experiment and experience, then book a Understanding your Human Design Session.
If you have been called to journey deeper and immerse yourself within your Human Design Experiment, then join me for a 3 month Human Design Immersion.