The tribe vs the individual

Are you tribal? Are you individual? Or are you some combination of both? TRIBAL Are you drawn to be part of a group? A group that has a "code" that you align with.  A group in which you feel supported and where you can support others. A group in which you feel...

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The map is not the territory

I loved the days of physical map books.  If you were planning to go somewhere you had not been before, you would take out the map and plan your route. I would write down the names of the streets, and how many streets I would need to cross over before the one I wanted...

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Life Force Energy

Each one of us has their own unique life force energy – this is the core of you, the essence of you. Human Design gives you simple strategies and tools to connect to that life force energy. When you connect to that energy you are in divine resonance with the truth of...

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How to stop listening to the mind

Is your mind controlling you? Is the mind running the show? As long as the mind is in control you are operating under a form of autopilot and the life you live under this auto pilot often brings a large amount of suffering. To be free of the mind you need to become...

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How the mind uses fear to control you

Every Human Being has experience fear, yet few realise what a controlling influence it is in our life. The majority of the fears that we experience are a construct that comes from the mind.  The mind telling us a plethora of stories about the way things should be and...

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Radio Interview

On the 12th of April 2019, I was interviewed by Kim Love on her Radio show, "Crushing 40" hosted on Impact Radio USA. Before the interview I reached out to Kim to ask her if there was anything I needed to do to prepare, and she said no, that it would be like meeting...

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Escaping your Patterns

Each time our neurons run along a specific path in our neural network, they create an imprint.  Each time your thoughts run on this path, the groove is cut a little deeper. The deeper the groove, the more ingrained it becomes. These are our patterns.  Our patterns of...

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Is it time to challenge your perception?

The thing about perception is that it is always limited AND most people have no awareness of how limited it is.  When you are locked within your limited perception you cannot SEE outside of it. It keeps you locked into a way of being, a way of living, a way of...

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Do we create our reality?

Using your mind to get the things you want in life and create your reality around you.  On the surface this all seems pretty amazing. Who wouldn't want to get on board with this idea, right? It is true that the mind is powerful and that it can “make things happen”....

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The Mind is a Barrier to Doing what you Love

From the moment we are born we enter into the conditioning field, into the matrix. Each moment that passes exposes us to the ideologies, ideas, cultures, religions, thoughts, beliefs of the world we are born into. The conditioning field goes to work, essentially...

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Decision Making VS Choices

Decision making is not the same as making choices. Let me give you a few moments to let your mind go crazy over that statement.... If they are not the same, then how are they different you may be asking. In the context of Human Design, making choices is something that...

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Permission to be SELFISH

Your Human Design may reveal to you that it is perfect for you to be selfish and self-absorbed. To put what is correct for you first before others. Our society does not advocate for selfishness - it is more of an advocate for self-less-ness. Yet when we do not operate...

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Are you Worthy?

The Ego Centre In Human Design there are 9 centres. One of these is known as the Ego/Heart/Will Centre. If this centre is open or undefined (white) then this means that this is one of the places in your design where you take in conditioning. The conditioning that...

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Melancholy as your Muse

There are certain topics which most people in our modern day society avoid. One of those is sadness or depression. There is this perception - which is pushed by the media and social media - that our lives should always be "UP" and never "DOWN". That as soon as we feel...

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Stop Listening to your MIND

For centuries MINDS have ruled the world. They were effective and moved us forwards in our journey. Yet the time for the mind being in control has passed, and in its place a far wiser and more intelligent awareness has awakened. The mind is afraid, and it does not...

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Stepping into the world of Human Design

Stepping into the world of Human Design has been an amazingly fascinating journey. For so many of us we start our journey of self-discovery in the world of self-help and unfortunately this market place is littered with propaganda that tells us that there is something...

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Have you found your purpose?

So many people can spend what feels like their entire lives searching for their purpose. This search can be exhausting and depressing. The search consumes time, money and most importantly energy, with so many coming up with more question than answers. The spiritual...

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Strategy of Waiting

What does wait to respond mean? You know what you want in life and you are out there trying to get it.You've got it all mapped out, and are striving ahead to achieve all you have ever dreamed you would.Then you meet Human Design and are told to WAIT TO RESPOND or WAIT...

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Caring for others

Do you have an internal drive to help others?In my work assisting people to understand their Human Design, I have been working with a Generator who is designed to care for, support and help others.  There is this unconscious fixed life force energy within him that...

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STOP and SEE

Every now and then life gives us opportunities to STOP. To break the habitual cycle of our daily lives and to SEE in a way we may not have seen before or have seen for a while. A few weeks ago I injured my ankle and broke my fibula.  Having a broken ankle meant that I...

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Who am I? Why am I here?

I have spent most of my adult life trying to answer these questions. I have poured my life and my energy into perusing any knowledge, information or skill set that would help me to find the answer. I studied or invested time in trying to understand: Religion,...

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Escaping the Pain & Suffering of the Mind

For a while now, I have been suffering with pain in my neck and shoulders and despite all the healing techniques I know I have been struggling to shift this. Over a weekend at the end of July,  I had the most amazing experience where a deep knowing came to me. I spent...

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Should your Emotions Guide You?

We all feel emotions, but does this mean that we should use our emotions as guide, a way to navigate through our lives? Are our emotions a reliable and accurate tool to navigate with? Can we trust them to guide us through our lives? Can we trust them enough to make...

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Allow life to move you

Have you ever really just let go and allowed life to move you? I understand from personal experience what it means to push and force my way through life. I spent years of my life doing just this and it lead to success in many areas of my life. Then a few years ago, a...

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Desperate to fit in

As a young child I remember feeling desperate to fit in. I remember thinking that I would do just about anything so that people would see me, would like me, would want to hang out with me. This desperate need to fit in led to nothing but pain and more pain for me. It...

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The Power of 10

This year I am celebrating 10 years of living in Australia. It has been an interesting 10 years. I have learned so much about myself. It has been a challenging and yet extremely rewarding 10 years. Parts of me still long for the land of my birth and others are firmly...

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The Power of the NOT-SELF Mind

What is the NOT-SELF Mind? It is the entity that looks at what is not us and continues to convince us that it is us.  It is a distorted and unhealthy view of us and the world around us. It convinces us to do things and say things that are not correct for us and it...

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Have you fed your SOUL today?

We spend most of our lives feeding our minds, yet so many forget to feed their soul. It isn't really about an either or, it is about balance. When our mind and soul are in harmony a gorgeous rhythm is felt. It was only when I reached the depths of depression that I...

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How I became a Millionaire by Accident

If you have spent any time in the online world then you will quickly see that people often market the products they are selling by telling you how much money they make. Facebook posts are littered with claims to $20k months or the like. What I have noticed in my...

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Getting nothing you expected

Have you ever entered into something thinking you would get something out of it, only to be totally surprised by what you receive? In my late 20's I decided I wanted to do Kung Fu. I had my reasons for joining, firstly, I grew up in Johannesburg South Africa, and so...

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In this Moment

In this moment it is very likely that there are hundreds, if not thousands of thoughts streaming into your consciousness. The majority of these thoughts are not only repetitive, they are also very negative. Yet most of us continue to pay attention to these thoughts. ...

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How Horror Movies stopped me from connecting to Spirit

I hated horror movies as a child.  I couldn't bare the images that I saw, they would follow me into my dreams and would scare the living day lights out of me. I realise now that not only am I empathic, and clairsentient but I am clairvoyant too.  This means that I...

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Are you ready to let go?

Do you get tension and pain in your neck and shoulders on a regular basis? When I connect into my clients energy, I often feel this pain and tension. Very often it is related to holding onto things unnecessarily. Women in particular tend to hold onto things FOR other...

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Your Energy is Amazing

What if I told you: You're Energy is Amazing! The ability for you to receive these words, to absorb the energy of them into your being would depend on where you are at in your soul journey. I know that in the not too distant past, I would have struggled to receive the...

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FREE Hugs here

What would you do if you saw a sign that said: FREE Hugs? Would you go up and get one? Or, would you walk past curiously but not wanting to go over? Or, would you look the other way and pretend that you didn't event see the sign? Personally I would probably walk past...

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Physiology before Thought

What does that mean? Physiology before thought? You probably have some idea of what thoughts are. Physiology, is about how we move our bodies and how our bodies function. In the western world we are taught to think our way through things.  We are taught to use our...

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When last did you hit PAUSE?

Our society is so focused on go, go, go, push, push, push. We are so goal orientated, so goal focused. We run from one thing to the next. We forget to hit PAUSE. When last did you take a real PAUSE? It is in the pauses that some of our greatest realisations come. When...

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A healing journey

When I entered my teenage years, my face broke out in acne. At first everyone told me that this was normal, that it happens to all teenagers.  It was just my hormones, and in time it would pass. As I approached my 40th birthday, I was still suffering from regular acne...

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Pain and the Human Experience

Physical pain is something all humans experience. We have a tendency to want to run away from, to escape this pain. We try to ignore it. We may even medicate so that we don’t feel it or to lessen its intensity. We have associated the feeling of pain with something...

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The Flow of Abundance

When you see or hear the word abundance what do you think of?  For many people money immediately comes into the picture.  While I believe that abundance is far greater than just the money we have in our lives, money is definitely one aspect of abundance. Abundance...

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The Effect of Emotions

Emotions and the Human Experience are inextricably linked.  They appear to be tied together, hand in hand. Partners for life. Yet, many people have very little understanding of their emotions or where they arise from. According to Eckhart Tolle, the well known author...

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Your Wisdom

Our entire western society is geared toward using the mind as the main decision making tool.  We think about everything.  We rationalise. We logically deduce.  We problem solve, weighing up pieces of information we have read or learned.  Each one of these...

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Should we focus on the bright side of life?

Did you know that always focusing on the bright side of things can rob you of your power? I would consider myself a positive person and if you spend time with me I’m usually up beat and happy with life. Awesome right?? Well - Yes and No. When we focus on all the...

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Resistance to Receiving

When someone who deeply cares about you offers you advice or suggests that you do something do you feel frustrated or even angry?  Do you find yourself responding sharply, possibly even angrily? Why do we react like this?  Where is this response coming from? How aware...

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Where is home?

What makes the country that you live in feel like home?  And how does this sense of belonging, or feeling like a place is home, affect your energy and your ability to thrive? It seems that being born in a country does not automatically create this feeling. So what is...

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The Energy of Receiving

At the end of January 2018 we experienced a powerful lunar event and the energy that was brought with it is having some powerful effects on all of us.  This powerful lunar event included, a full moon, a blue moon, a super moon and a magical lunar eclipse creating a...

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How to get exactly what you want

Hi, gorgeous soul.  My name's Lynda. Today I want to tell you a little secret that I've learned about getting what you want. (Watch the video, or read more below) https://youtu.be/H2uRuYAXLxo In that statement: “I want to get exactly what I want”. We already have the...

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Not another Gratefulness Practice

Hi, gorgeous people. My name is Lynda. Yes, you read the title: Not another gratefulness practice.  Seriously, how many can there be? (watch the video or continue reading below) https://youtu.be/hp25hRBAyco I've been involved in the metaphysical realm for many years...

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The Power of your Story

Hello, gorgeous people, my name is Lynda. Today I want to chat to you about your STORY. (watch video, or continue reading below) https://youtu.be/uvm4RIFjcNs I love people's stories. I love listening to people's stories and seeing how the events in their lives, the...

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How to get more visible

Hi, gorgeous souls, my name is Lynda. I want to share with you how I learned to get more visible and I hope that some of the things I learned along the way that will assist you in your journey of becoming more visible. I want to start off...

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