Star in your own movie

Star in your own movie

The life that you are living now is YOUR life.  If someone was to make a movie of your life then naturally you would be the main character.  You would be the STAR in your own movie.  Yet most of us live our lives as if we are one of the movies extra's.  We fade into...

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Letting go of dependency

Letting go of dependency

Times are changing... And with it the entire way that we will be required to show up in the world. The next 7 years are the last seven years of an old paradigm, one in which we have become reliant on systems, structures, organisations and governments.  We have put our...

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New Year 2020

New Year 2020

At 00h04 on the 23rd of January 2020, we enter into the energy of the New Year. This is the beginning of a new solar cycle, the beginning of a new human experiential way on this plane. The past couple of weeks have been all about reflection of the past cycle: Looking...

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Take a look in the mirror

Take a look in the mirror

When you take a look in the mirror what do you see? Do you see the most beautiful human soul full of light and love? Or do you see the blemishes on you skin, the nose that is too big or too small, the hair that is not quite right, the eyes that look tired and the...

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The illusion of success

The illusion of success

If you hop onto social media, or turn on the TV, you will be flooded with images, videos and conversations about what success looks like, and what it feels like.  These images are usually filled with luxury cars, boats, houses, and briefcases over flowing with money. ...

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Provoking the Spirit

Provoking the Spirit

Deep within you, lies your core essence, your spirit. Does it feel free? Able to be fully expressed? Or do you feel more like the genie in the lamp, trapped and hidden from the world.  Only able to come out on rare occasions? No matter what you have gone through in...

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The only way to stand out

The only way to stand out

It wasn't until I moved to Australia that I learned about the "Tall Poppy" syndrome. Looking at Wikipeada: "The tall poppy syndrome describes aspects of a culture where people of high status are resented, attacked, cut down, strung up or criticized because they have...

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Swimming upstream

Swimming upstream

Challenge is a part of life and most often leads us to some of the best discoveries, learning, aha moments and peals of wisdom. Yet there is a significant difference between embracing a challenge and swimming against the flow of life and the flow of energy. Unless you...

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The Biology of Belief

The Biology of Belief

A few years back, I came across "The Biology of Belief" by Bruce Lipton, and really found his message to be powerful. Today, I wanted to Investigate the Biology of Belief through a Human Design lens. If you have not yet heard of The Biology of Belief, its worth...

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Has life thrown you lemons?

Has life thrown you lemons?

Do you find yourself in a life situation that is dissatisfying? It doesn't quite meet what you thought your life should be.  Perhaps you are unhappy because it hasn't turned out the way you expected. You look at the world around you and it appears that so many people...

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The Pain of Life

The Pain of Life

If you are alive then you will experience pain. I have yet to meet a human being that does not have a life story that involves some level of pain and suffering.   Pain and being human seem to be synonymous. Pain occurs on many different levels and can include both...

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What is your impact?

What is your impact?

What is your impact on others? Do you even care? We are all taught to "try to be nice people", to do "good" and to "make" something of our lives that will have a lasting impact on the world.  Yet it can often feel as if our "good deeds" go unnoticed, we feel no...

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Emerging Spirit Consciousness

Emerging Spirit Consciousness

There is an old expression: "Knowledge is Power" Yet, what I have experienced over the past few years, is that knowledge has the potential to completely take our power away. If you think about how we obtain knowledge, you will quickly begin to realise that we are...

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The tribe vs the individual

The tribe vs the individual

Are you tribal? Are you individual? Or are you some combination of both? TRIBAL Are you drawn to be part of a group? A group that has a "code" that you align with.  A group in which you feel supported and where you can support others. A group in which you feel...

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The map is not the territory

The map is not the territory

I loved the days of physical map books.  If you were planning to go somewhere you had not been before, you would take out the map and plan your route. I would write down the names of the streets, and how many streets I would need to cross over before the one I wanted...

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Life Force Energy

Life Force Energy

Each one of us has their own unique life force energy – this is the core of you, the essence of you. Human Design gives you simple strategies and tools to connect to that life force energy. When you connect to that energy you are in divine resonance with the truth of...

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How to stop listening to the mind

How to stop listening to the mind

Is your mind controlling you? Is the mind running the show? As long as the mind is in control you are operating under a form of autopilot and the life you live under this auto pilot often brings a large amount of suffering. To be free of the mind you need to become...

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How the mind uses fear to control you

How the mind uses fear to control you

Every Human Being has experience fear, yet few realise what a controlling influence it is in our life. The majority of the fears that we experience are a construct that comes from the mind.  The mind telling us a plethora of stories about the way things should be and...

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Radio Interview

Radio Interview

On the 12th of April 2019, I was interviewed by Kim Love on her Radio show, "Crushing 40" hosted on Impact Radio USA. Before the interview I reached out to Kim to ask her if there was anything I needed to do to prepare, and she said no, that it would be like meeting...

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Escaping your Patterns

Escaping your Patterns

Each time our neurons run along a specific path in our neural network, they create an imprint.  Each time your thoughts run on this path, the groove is cut a little deeper. The deeper the groove, the more ingrained it becomes. These are our patterns.  Our patterns of...

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Is it time to challenge your perception?

Is it time to challenge your perception?

The thing about perception is that it is always limited AND most people have no awareness of how limited it is.  When you are locked within your limited perception you cannot SEE outside of it. It keeps you locked into a way of being, a way of living, a way of...

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Do we create our reality?

Do we create our reality?

Using your mind to get the things you want in life and create your reality around you.  On the surface this all seems pretty amazing. Who wouldn't want to get on board with this idea, right? It is true that the mind is powerful and that it can “make things happen”....

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The Mind is a Barrier to Doing what you Love

The Mind is a Barrier to Doing what you Love

From the moment we are born we enter into the conditioning field, into the matrix. Each moment that passes exposes us to the ideologies, ideas, cultures, religions, thoughts, beliefs of the world we are born into. The conditioning field goes to work, essentially...

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Decision Making VS Choices

Decision Making VS Choices

Decision making is not the same as making choices. Let me give you a few moments to let your mind go crazy over that statement.... If they are not the same, then how are they different you may be asking. In the context of Human Design, making choices is something that...

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Permission to be SELFISH

Permission to be SELFISH

Your Human Design may reveal to you that it is perfect for you to be selfish and self-absorbed. To put what is correct for you first before others. Our society does not advocate for selfishness - it is more of an advocate for self-less-ness. Yet when we do not operate...

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Are you Worthy?

Are you Worthy?

The Ego Centre In Human Design there are 9 centres. One of these is known as the Ego/Heart/Will Centre. If this centre is open or undefined (white) then this means that this is one of the places in your design where you take in conditioning. The conditioning that...

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Melancholy as your Muse

Melancholy as your Muse

There are certain topics which most people in our modern day society avoid. One of those is sadness or depression. There is this perception - which is pushed by the media and social media - that our lives should always be "UP" and never "DOWN". That as soon as we feel...

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Stop Listening to your MIND

Stop Listening to your MIND

For centuries MINDS have ruled the world. They were effective and moved us forwards in our journey. Yet the time for the mind being in control has passed, and in its place a far wiser and more intelligent awareness has awakened. The mind is afraid, and it does not...

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Stepping into the world of Human Design

Stepping into the world of Human Design

Stepping into the world of Human Design has been an amazingly fascinating journey. For so many of us we start our journey of self-discovery in the world of self-help and unfortunately this market place is littered with propaganda that tells us that there is something...

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Have you found your purpose?

Have you found your purpose?

So many people can spend what feels like their entire lives searching for their purpose. This search can be exhausting and depressing. The search consumes time, money and most importantly energy, with so many coming up with more question than answers. The spiritual...

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Strategy of Waiting

Strategy of Waiting

What does wait to respond mean? You know what you want in life and you are out there trying to get it.You've got it all mapped out, and are striving ahead to achieve all you have ever dreamed you would.Then you meet Human Design and are told to WAIT TO RESPOND or WAIT...

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Caring for others

Caring for others

Do you have an internal drive to help others?In my work assisting people to understand their Human Design, I have been working with a Generator who is designed to care for, support and help others.  There is this unconscious fixed life force energy within him that...

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STOP and SEE

STOP and SEE

Every now and then life gives us opportunities to STOP. To break the habitual cycle of our daily lives and to SEE in a way we may not have seen before or have seen for a while. A few weeks ago I injured my ankle and broke my fibula.  Having a broken ankle meant that I...

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Who am I? Why am I here?

Who am I? Why am I here?

I have spent most of my adult life trying to answer these questions. I have poured my life and my energy into perusing any knowledge, information or skill set that would help me to find the answer. I studied or invested time in trying to understand: Religion,...

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Escaping the Pain & Suffering of the Mind

Escaping the Pain & Suffering of the Mind

For a while now, I have been suffering with pain in my neck and shoulders and despite all the healing techniques I know I have been struggling to shift this. Over a weekend at the end of July,  I had the most amazing experience where a deep knowing came to me. I spent...

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Should your Emotions Guide You?

Should your Emotions Guide You?

We all feel emotions, but does this mean that we should use our emotions as guide, a way to navigate through our lives? Are our emotions a reliable and accurate tool to navigate with? Can we trust them to guide us through our lives? Can we trust them enough to make...

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Allow life to move you

Allow life to move you

Have you ever really just let go and allowed life to move you? I understand from personal experience what it means to push and force my way through life. I spent years of my life doing just this and it lead to success in many areas of my life. Then a few years ago, a...

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Desperate to fit in

Desperate to fit in

As a young child I remember feeling desperate to fit in. I remember thinking that I would do just about anything so that people would see me, would like me, would want to hang out with me. This desperate need to fit in led to nothing but pain and more pain for me. It...

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The Power of 10

The Power of 10

This year I am celebrating 10 years of living in Australia. It has been an interesting 10 years. I have learned so much about myself. It has been a challenging and yet extremely rewarding 10 years. Parts of me still long for the land of my birth and others are firmly...

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The Power of the NOT-SELF Mind

The Power of the NOT-SELF Mind

What is the NOT-SELF Mind? It is the entity that looks at what is not us and continues to convince us that it is us.  It is a distorted and unhealthy view of us and the world around us. It convinces us to do things and say things that are not correct for us and it...

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Have you fed your SOUL today?

Have you fed your SOUL today?

We spend most of our lives feeding our minds, yet so many forget to feed their soul. It isn't really about an either or, it is about balance. When our mind and soul are in harmony a gorgeous rhythm is felt. It was only when I reached the depths of depression that I...

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How I became a Millionaire by Accident

How I became a Millionaire by Accident

If you have spent any time in the online world then you will quickly see that people often market the products they are selling by telling you how much money they make. Facebook posts are littered with claims to $20k months or the like. What I have noticed in my...

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Getting nothing you expected

Getting nothing you expected

Have you ever entered into something thinking you would get something out of it, only to be totally surprised by what you receive? In my late 20's I decided I wanted to do Kung Fu. I had my reasons for joining, firstly, I grew up in Johannesburg South Africa, and so...

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In this Moment

In this Moment

In this moment it is very likely that there are hundreds, if not thousands of thoughts streaming into your consciousness. The majority of these thoughts are not only repetitive, they are also very negative. Yet most of us continue to pay attention to these thoughts. ...

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How Horror Movies stopped me from connecting to Spirit

How Horror Movies stopped me from connecting to Spirit

I hated horror movies as a child.  I couldn't bare the images that I saw, they would follow me into my dreams and would scare the living day lights out of me. I realise now that not only am I empathic, and clairsentient but I am clairvoyant too.  This means that I...

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Are you ready to let go?

Are you ready to let go?

Do you get tension and pain in your neck and shoulders on a regular basis? When I connect into my clients energy, I often feel this pain and tension. Very often it is related to holding onto things unnecessarily. Women in particular tend to hold onto things FOR other...

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Your Energy is Amazing

Your Energy is Amazing

What if I told you: You're Energy is Amazing! The ability for you to receive these words, to absorb the energy of them into your being would depend on where you are at in your soul journey. I know that in the not too distant past, I would have struggled to receive the...

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FREE Hugs here

FREE Hugs here

What would you do if you saw a sign that said: FREE Hugs? Would you go up and get one? Or, would you walk past curiously but not wanting to go over? Or, would you look the other way and pretend that you didn't event see the sign? Personally I would probably walk past...

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Physiology before Thought

Physiology before Thought

What does that mean? Physiology before thought? You probably have some idea of what thoughts are. Physiology, is about how we move our bodies and how our bodies function. In the western world we are taught to think our way through things.  We are taught to use our...

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When last did you hit PAUSE?

When last did you hit PAUSE?

Our society is so focused on go, go, go, push, push, push. We are so goal orientated, so goal focused. We run from one thing to the next. We forget to hit PAUSE. When last did you take a real PAUSE? It is in the pauses that some of our greatest realisations come. When...

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